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— Frequently Asked —

Your questions, answered.

Everything we wish someone had told us before our first piece of fine jewelry.

Every Dilemma is a complete collection of three matched pieces in one color: Tube Hoop Earrings (40mm), Tube Station Necklace (18" with 2" extender), and Tube Station Bracelet (7" with 1" extender). One price. One color. Three pieces of conviction. Wear them together or separately.
Each piece is hand-cast in brass, gilded in 14k gold, and finished with high-fire enamel applied entirely by hand. Hypoallergenic. Nickel-free. (Technical spec: 14k gold electroplate over solid brass with vitreous enamel inlay.)
Yes. All My Dilemma pieces are nickel-free and hypoallergenic-friendly. If you have especially sensitive skin or a known allergy to brass, consult your dermatologist. We're not able to provide individual medical guidance, but we can confirm: no nickel, no lead, no cadmium.
Treated well, your Dilemma will hold its gold finish for years. The fastest way to wear it down is exposure to water, perfume, lotion, sweat, and household cleaning chemicals. Remove your jewelry before swimming, showering, sleeping, working out, or applying skincare and fragrance. See our full Care Guide.
Please don't. Chlorine, salt water, hot water, and steam all dramatically shorten the life of plated jewelry and can damage enamel. Take it off before water, and remember: jewelry is the last thing on, first thing off.
Not at the moment. We're a collections-only brand by design — every Dilemma is sold as a complete look. If demand changes, we'll change with it. For now, the answer is the collection.
We process orders within 1–3 business days. Standard U.S. ground shipping arrives in 3–7 business days. Express options are available at checkout. International shipping rates and timelines are calculated at checkout. See full Shipping details.
Free returns within 30 days of delivery. Full collection only — we don't accept partial returns. Pieces must be unworn and in original packaging. See full Returns Policy.
Every Dilemma arrives in our signature box, ready to gift exactly as it ships — no extra wrapping necessary, no extra fee. If you'd like a handwritten card included with a message, add a note at checkout.
Yes. We offer Klarna at checkout: four interest-free payments of $198.75. Subject to Klarna's approval and terms.
We ship to most international destinations. Rates and customs duties are calculated at checkout. The customer is responsible for any duties, taxes, or fees imposed by the destination country.
Email us at hello@mydilemma.com within 7 days of delivery with photos and your order number. We'll repair, replace, or refund — whichever you prefer. We stand behind every Dilemma.
Designed in New York. Crafted in partnership with small ateliers we've worked with for years. We obsess over the depth of the enamel and the warmth of the gold so you don't have to.
Yes. This is The Tube Collection · Volume One. More volumes — new silhouettes, new colors — are coming. Subscribe to our list to be the first to know.